My oldest said something similar but different. more of "you don't love me". Don't ask what lead to that since it was something stupid and of him being so spoiled not getting his way opening his mouth like that and saying that. He felt bad later on saying it since he knows how much I love him and his brother and both kids I love the same. Both my kids know that, but my oldest son got his way a little to much when little and growing up so now he thinks he can get what he wants with trying to "manipulate" me. That's what you get from giving them what they want. ah well!! But children always will say something hurtful to their parent when they hurt or want to get attention, or just for being kids. Like your Mom just stayed for so long with you, your daughter is used to having a Nana paying attention to her and misses her Nana probably so that's why she didnt' eat and said that. Just be patient and just keep doing what you have been doing. Don't let that beat you! Just be a Mom ^_^
Don't feel bad, your daughter is young and of what I heard is that girls have more of a way of saying hurtful things like that then boys. >_<
(no subject)
Date: 2009-08-17 04:25 pm (UTC)My oldest said something similar but different. more of "you don't love me". Don't ask what lead to that since it was something stupid and of him being so spoiled not getting his way opening his mouth like that and saying that. He felt bad later on saying it since he knows how much I love him and his brother and both kids I love the same. Both my kids know that, but my oldest son got his way a little to much when little and growing up so now he thinks he can get what he wants with trying to "manipulate" me. That's what you get from giving them what they want. ah well!!
But children always will say something hurtful to their parent when they hurt or want to get attention, or just for being kids.
Like your Mom just stayed for so long with you, your daughter is used to having a Nana paying attention to her and misses her Nana probably so that's why she didnt' eat and said that. Just be patient and just keep doing what you have been doing. Don't let that beat you! Just be a Mom ^_^
Don't feel bad, your daughter is young and of what I heard is that girls have more of a way of saying hurtful things like that then boys. >_<
*hugs*